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How to involve your wali from the very first conversation
Adding your wali early is not a formality. It changes how the conversation is had — for the better, for both of you.
Tell him before you begin
Let him know you are using Eelaf and what to expect: a link by email, a read-only view, and no reply box.
Add him when the conversation opens
From the conversation menu, choose your wali. The other person sees that he has joined, so nothing is hidden.
Talk about what he reads
A short conversation at home after a few messages helps him understand what you are looking for, and you hear what he noticed.