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Safety centre

Your safety is the work, not a feature.

Live-photo review is required; government ID is optional. Both stay private. Every report is reviewed, and behaviour follows an account.

Your ID is used onceTo confirm who you are, and nothing else. No member ever sees it.

Photos stay closedVisible only after you both accept, or blurred if you prefer.

You can take it all backRequest a copy of your data, or delete the account entirely.

Every report is acted onReviewed before any decision. It costs the account its reach.

In the app

Asked for your number, or money? It never arrives.

A message that pushes off the platform or asks for money is held for review: only its sender sees it until it is released or removed. And every member makes the Eelaf Promise before their profile goes for review.

Before your review

The Eelaf Promise

Every member makes it before their profile goes for review.

I am here to marry.

I will be honest about my photos, my age, my marital status and my intentions.

I will be respectful in every message, including when I decline.

I will never ask another member for money, attempt fraud, or threaten, encourage, or commit violence.

I will keep other members’ photos and details private.

I promise

Breaking this promise can close your account.

9:41

Dana, 26

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Her wali Nasser can read this conversation.

Today

This conversation opened when the interest was accepted. A read-only link was sent to Nasser.

Assalamu alaikum. My family knows I am here, and I have read your profile properly.

8:04 pmRead

Wa alaikum assalam. My wali is on this conversation.

8:10 pm

When would your family like to speak with mine?

8:15 pmRead

You asked to see Dana’s photos

Waiting for Dana to answer.

My number is 05X XXX XXXX

8:21 pm· Held for review

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9:41

Before you meet

Five habits that keep you safe.

01Never send moneyNot for a ticket, a fee, an emergency or a gift. Report anyone who asks.

02Keep talking inside EelafYour number and social accounts can wait until you and your family are sure.

03Involve your waliA second pair of eyes notices what an excited first conversation misses.

04Meet with family, in publicA family home or a busy, public place. Arrange your own transport.

05Protect your privacyHold back your address, workplace and full name until you are certain.

Something feels wrong?Trust it. Leave the conversation, block, and tell us.How to report →

Reporting

Three taps, and they are never told it was you.

1
Open their profile or the conversation
Scroll to the bottom of the profile, or open the conversation menu.
2
Tap Report or Block
Blocking ends the match immediately.
3
Tell us what happened
A reason and, if you like, a few words.

What happens next

Reviewed

Every report is read before any decision is made.

Acted on

A warning, less reach in Discover, or removal — depending on what happened.

Remembered

Behaviour follows an account. Paying for anything never exempts it.

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Emergency numbers

If you need help now.

Country	Emergency
Saudi Arabia	911
United Arab Emirates	999 police · 998 ambulance
Qatar	999
Kuwait	112
Bahrain	999
Oman	9999
Pakistan	15 police · 1122 rescue

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